"Fishing ka noh?"
Of course, who would want to be caught dead fishing for answers? So the only logical reply to the question is
"Hindi noh!"
Yeah, sure.
Curiosity has always been an innate characteristic in both sexes that could have sprung out of innocent interest or, in most cases, out of that personal need to somehow purge the truth while reading between the lines. To be more specific, there is a solid line that divides the argument "I want to know." from "I need to know." The first argument exudes plain interest - something that might have caught one's fancy and that knowing whatever's up oddly brings that feeling of being "in-the-know"; the latter is obviously similar to that so-called "tip of the iceberg" - there seems to be something that could be hanging in the balance and knowing the real score might be a determinant to a particular outcome.
I believe that just like flirting, fishing is an art and requires certain know-how's lest you want to save yourself the shame of wearing that burning curiosity up in your sleeve. Two important keywords: SUBTLE and CASUAL. The subtlest questions laid in the most casual manner could very well work to your advantage. Problem is, it's never easy knowing which ones are the right questions to ask. So I guess one quick fix is to ask away without seeming too prodding, and NEVER ever let your emotion betray you. In other words, act cooly and then do all the contemplating later. Oh and in this case, beating around the bush could work best for anyone.
So who does it better between the two sexes? I'd have to admit that men seemed to have mastered the art of fishing since Eden's gates closed on Adam and Eve. Damn, they're so good at it! And yet, men are still THE most clueless people on the face of the planet. Ironic!
On a more personal note, I think it’s better to be more direct and honest rather than fish for answers, especially from guys. I don’t know, but it seems they’re keen enough to know when any woman is fishing for answers. Male instinct, I guess. *Sigh* And so, ladies out there might as well get it off their minds as straightforward as possible. As for me, I’m never really quite good at fishing; I’m very easily caught red-handed. Plus I think a more straightforward and honest convos prevent false assumptions that could make things a little more out of hand. Trust me, nobody wants that to happen.
Of course, who would want to be caught dead fishing for answers? So the only logical reply to the question is
"Hindi noh!"
Yeah, sure.
Curiosity has always been an innate characteristic in both sexes that could have sprung out of innocent interest or, in most cases, out of that personal need to somehow purge the truth while reading between the lines. To be more specific, there is a solid line that divides the argument "I want to know." from "I need to know." The first argument exudes plain interest - something that might have caught one's fancy and that knowing whatever's up oddly brings that feeling of being "in-the-know"; the latter is obviously similar to that so-called "tip of the iceberg" - there seems to be something that could be hanging in the balance and knowing the real score might be a determinant to a particular outcome.
I believe that just like flirting, fishing is an art and requires certain know-how's lest you want to save yourself the shame of wearing that burning curiosity up in your sleeve. Two important keywords: SUBTLE and CASUAL. The subtlest questions laid in the most casual manner could very well work to your advantage. Problem is, it's never easy knowing which ones are the right questions to ask. So I guess one quick fix is to ask away without seeming too prodding, and NEVER ever let your emotion betray you. In other words, act cooly and then do all the contemplating later. Oh and in this case, beating around the bush could work best for anyone.
So who does it better between the two sexes? I'd have to admit that men seemed to have mastered the art of fishing since Eden's gates closed on Adam and Eve. Damn, they're so good at it! And yet, men are still THE most clueless people on the face of the planet. Ironic!
On a more personal note, I think it’s better to be more direct and honest rather than fish for answers, especially from guys. I don’t know, but it seems they’re keen enough to know when any woman is fishing for answers. Male instinct, I guess. *Sigh* And so, ladies out there might as well get it off their minds as straightforward as possible. As for me, I’m never really quite good at fishing; I’m very easily caught red-handed. Plus I think a more straightforward and honest convos prevent false assumptions that could make things a little more out of hand. Trust me, nobody wants that to happen.
3 Smiles:
So what are you trying to say?
Us men aren't clueless!
Hahaha... ooohhh, somebody's affected.. Seriously, are u telling me that or are u telling your kind? Kidding! :)
Yup, you let out my secret. So now I have to kill you :)
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